The best couple questions are not about the answer. They are about the minute after, when one of you says "wait, really?" and the real talk starts.
Take turns. Answer fast, then explain. If you both pick the same side, try guessing what most couples would pick instead.
Sweet ones
#01
Relive your first date, or skip ahead to see your 50th anniversary?
ARelive the first date
BSee the 50th
#02
Get a handwritten letter every month, or one perfect surprise trip a year?
AMonthly letters
BOne big trip
#03
Always know what your partner is craving, or always know when they're sad?
ATheir cravings
BTheir sadness
#04
Have a song that's only yours, or a place that's only yours?
AOur song
BOur place
#05
Cook together every night, or eat out together every night?
ACook together
BEat out
#06
Hear your partner describe you to a stranger, or read their diary about your first month?
AHear the description
BRead the diary
Honest ones
#07
Share every password, or keep one thing just yours?
AShare everything
BKeep one thing
#08
Fight loudly and make up fast, or never fight and never say it?
ALoud and fast
BQuiet and unsaid
#09
Your partner forgets your birthday, or remembers it but gets you the wrong gift?
AForgets it
BWrong gift
#10
Know your partner's ex was better at something, or never know what they compare?
AKnow
BNever know
#11
Move for their dream job, or ask them to give it up for yours?
AMove for theirs
BAsk them to stay
#12
Be the one who always apologizes first, or the one who's always apologized to?
AApologize first
BBe apologized to
#13
Your partner tells you every small lie they ever told, or none of them?
AEvery one
BNone
#14
Live with their family for a year, or have them live with yours?
ATheir family
BYour family
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Future and big choices
#15
Get married in a tiny ceremony with $50,000 left over, or a big wedding and no savings?
ATiny and rich
BBig and broke
#16
Live in a small apartment in a city you love, or a big house in a town you don't?
ASmall, loved city
BBig, meh town
#17
Travel the world for a year before kids, or have kids young and travel later?
ATravel first
BKids first
#18
Retire early with less, or work longer and retire rich?
AEarly with less
BLater and rich
#19
Share one car forever, or have two and never share a road trip?
AShare one
BTwo cars
#20
Know how your relationship ends, or never know until it happens?
AKnow
BNever know
Silly ones
#21
Your partner narrates your life out loud for a day, or sings everything they say?
ANarrates
BSings
#22
Share a toothbrush, or share a phone?
AToothbrush
BPhone
#23
Always match outfits, or never be allowed in the same photo?
AAlways match
BNo photos
#24
Have your partner pick every meal for a month, or every outfit?
AEvery meal
BEvery outfit
#25
Only text in emojis for a week, or only talk in movie quotes?
AEmojis
BMovie quotes
#26
Your partner can hear your thoughts during movies, or during arguments?
ADuring movies
BDuring arguments
The hard ones
#27
Forgive one big betrayal, or forgive a hundred small ones?
AOne big
BA hundred small
#28
Be with someone who loves you more than you love them, or the other way around?
AThey love more
BYou love more
#29
Your partner's best friend hates you, or your best friend hates them?
ATheir friend
BYour friend
#30
Lose every photo of your relationship, or every message?
AEvery photo
BEvery message
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